Swinging is defined as having sex with other people's partners, whether that be together or apart. Psychotherapist Tammy Nelson states that swinging "involves consensual experiences where partners discuss before, during or after sex with each others partner's their experience sharing as much or little details as they desire."
The UK population has a reputation for having one of the largest swingers communities in Europe. A Channel 4 commissioned documentary called Swingers, discovered around 1.5 million people in Britain are involved in swinging - a 50% increase on the last decade. According to the research, the swinging scene has evolved and is no longer a hidden pleasure with Brits enjoying wife swapping, threesomes, and group sex.
Here at Sex City Guide, we have delved into the UK swinging scene and found everything you could want to know, in order to provide the ultimate guide to swingers clubs, parties, sites, and porn. We have looked at the top 5 swinger clubs across England, Scotland, Wales and Ireland, before uncovering the ever-growing swinger communities found online. And, if that is not enough for you, we even help to guide you to where you can find professional and amateur porn videos involving swingers.
List of the Top 5 Swinger Clubs in the UK
Chameleons
Picture Drome Way, Cresent Road, Darlaston, West Midlands, WS10 8DE
The most popular UK swingers club as voted by the users of Swinging Heaven, Chameleons is the West Midlands go-to meet up place for swingers. The sauna-based club with a second-floor Jacuzzi set up, also has a steam room, couples-only room, lockable and open playrooms, and a large bar area. The only thing the club doesn't offer is alcohol but you are more than welcome to take your own.
What gives the club the edge is the fact, Chameleons is a club run by swingers for swingers. The club with a venue in Newport creates events directed to meet the needs of local swingers in the area. The prices for a membership to the club are also cheap, where couples can get a lifetime membership for £25, single ladies register for £10 and single men register for £80.
Infusion
General St, Blackpool, FY1 1SG
Established in 2005, Infusion is the Northwest’s largest swinger venue. Open 5 days a week, Infusion has some of the best facilities you could find from a swinger party venue. Boasting a 30-foot swimming pool with poolside seating, a Scandinavian sauna, 8 seater Jacuzzi spa, games rooms, chill-out room, large 51 inch TVs playing porn, dungeon, gloryholes, and a unisex shower room - what more could you want?
Infusion is one of the most highly rated swinger clubs on Swinging Heaven. The only small disappointment I can think of is the fact the club is not allowed to sell alcohol, which is an issue if you enjoy a drink whilst you connect with our local swingers.
Cupids Swingers Club
Sutherland Street, Swinton, Manchester, M27 6AT
Cupids UK Swingers Club is one of the busiest Manchester swinger clubs. The stylish and elegant club has all the modern facilities and clean playrooms you would hope and expect. Open seven days a week, the club has many single male and female visitors, with regular themed parties and member-only events. One of the popular events takes place on Wednesday where only couples and single females are allowed.
Cupids have tons of great reviews all over the internet and are one of the North West's premier adult meeting and wife swapping spots. The only downside is that the club does not have a license to sell alcohol so you might want to have a drink before visiting an event.
Liberty Elite
Watling St, Lutterworth, Leicestershire, LE17 4HU
Founded in 1999, Liberty Elite established itself as the UK's upmarket private members club for swingers hosting regular events in Leicestershire. Following a renovation, the clean and modern club has two house DJs, a top buffet to help keep the energy levels high, and facilities where you can stay overnight.
The main attraction of Liberty Elite is the legendary events they host which attract a younger swinger crowd of between 25-50-year-olds -you are bound to find some of the sexiest female swingers at Liberty Elite. On Fridays, the club is open for couples and singles and Saturdays are for couples and single ladies only.
Our Place 4 Fun
Palace Gates Rd, London, N22 7BN
Our Place 4 Fun is one of London's new sophisticated Swingers Adult Party Venue. Our Place 4 Fun, has some really good facilities including private playrooms and two-way viewing window grope boxes with gloryholes and restraints. The club has a Love Tunnel with access to gloryholes and exits to the main Chill Out Lounge. The Bend Over room offers two-way viewing and a corner shag box with restraints and an orgy bed.
Our Place 4 Fun runs events every Friday and Saturday for regulars, newbies, and tourists as long as a pre-registration process has been completed online before attending (for new members). Upcoming events include a Back to the 80s themed night and a Halloween special called Freaks come 2 play. Couples, single gents, and trans people can become a member where you can sign up for a free membership to visit bronze events or pay £50 a year for a platinum membership.
Join The Community - Find Local Swingers Online
Thanks to huge social media platforms like Facebook where communities can gather, there is a huge online community where swingers can chat and arrange to meet. From forums to specialised websites where members must be swingers to sign up, the platforms are growing and there are more and more UK specific and International platforms online. The industry has become so big the Metro has created a 12+ best swinger dating sites for couples list.
Our problem with the Metro's list is they have included websites like AdultFriendFinder and AshleyMadison which are more catered to the casual dating and the American market. Here at Sex City Guide, the next 4 swinger sites we mention, all have a predominant UK user base and are designed for the sole purpose of helping swingers connect. So less talk, here at the websites you need to sign up for if you want to really adopt this kinky lifestyle.
Fab Swingers
Fab Swingers is a free, fun, and trusted website where swingers can create a community together. Founded in 2006, Fab Swingers is the internet's first swingers site and now has over 200,000 active members using the website daily. When looking deeper into the active user base, of the 25 million visitors who use the website a month, over 90% of them are from the UK. If you are a swinger, looking for people to speak to about the lifestyle, or trying to hook up with like-minded swingers near you, you are bound to find what you are looking for when using Fab Swingers.
UK Swingers
Established for over 20 years, UK Swingers is a UK-only swinging site. With the option to sign up for free, access free videos, free parties and learn more about clubs and dogging areas around the UK, if you are just getting started and dipping your toe into the UK swinging scene, then you really need to try out UK Swingers to not only learn but speak to local British swinger
Swinging Heaven
Swinging Heaven is a free UK swingers site that is dedicated to giving like-minded adults a platform to meet and chat with other swingers across Britain. The platform has over 3.3 million members worldwide and has sections on their website such as a chatroom, stories, and dogging where swingers can talk about their swinger experiences. The "Personals" section of the website allows swingers to post adverts for swinging events, parties, or to arrange private meet-ups where couples can seek couples, gays can seek gays, men can seek women and women can seek men, simple.
ABFAB Encounters
ABFAB Encounters is a website which makes it simple for local swingers to track down a variety of swinging parties and become a member to lean more about the swing lifestyle. ABFAB Encounters website has featured events for 2022 should you want to leave the UK and meet up with international swingers. Of note, the events currently include a sexy Costa Rica adventure, a cruise around the United States, and an escape to Mexico. Maybe it's time to add a swingers holiday to your calendar.
British Swingers Porn
If you don't think you are quite ready to jump wholeheartedly into the UK swinger scene or you are feeling horny and there are no local swingers in your area, you can always watch porn. Not just any porn though, there are videos all over the internet created by professional swinger parties and amateurs who have created their own porn videos.
Personally, I am not a swinger, but if I wanted to learn about what happens at a party, then I would watch UK swinger porn. Of course, you could join one of the swinger communities we have already discussed, but seeing a group of beautiful women have sex is a bonus. Below I have gone into more detail about which three websites have the best swinger porn videos.
Pornhub
Pornhub can quite easily be regarded as the most popular and well-known brand/company within the adult entertainment industry and for that reason, you are able to find plenty of swinger videos on the website. In December 2020, Pornhub removed the majority of videos on the platform which were unverified. This does mean that you will not be able to view amateur videos on Pornhub, but if you are looking for verified videos uploaded by professional swinger parties, then I would recommend Pornhub. Note, you can find Fab Swinger and Swinging Heaven videos on Pornhub.
XHamster
XHamster is a very popular porn streaming platform in the UK and America. XHamster is much more centered on the amateur porn market, meaning the quality of the videos might not be as high quality, however, provide a more realistic view of how a swinger sex party might happen. Just from having a quick search myself, there are plenty of videos to watch, including gangbangs, bukkakes, and full-on swinger party events. Note, you can find Fab Swinger and Swinging Heaven videos on XHamster where wife swapping occurs.
XVideos
XVideos is one of the biggest porn streaming platforms and there are a total of 295 videos on XVideos when you search for UK swingers and/or British swingers. A mixture of amateur and professional sex tapes, there is a good range of different swingers porn videos on the website, with plenty of comments also on the videos. This suggests to me that there is an active community of swingers on the platform and more videos will likely be added in the future. Note, you can find Fab Swinger and Swinging Heaven videos on XVideos.